Sometimes, Our True Love Is Not So Obvious
If you have seen the movie series “Back to the Future” you know that Lorraine was destined to marry George McFly and that altering that future threatened to wipe out Marty Mcfly and his siblings. Unless Marty restored Lorraine and George’s destiny, Marty’s future would cease to exist.
Though “Back to the Future” is fiction, it does touch upon an eternal truth,
“There is a mate that is your destiny, but if you miss your true love, your destiny may be lost forever”
When a person is about to marry, two types of potential spouses show up. First, there is the mate that God chooses for you. Normally they, like George McFly, are not obvious to our natural minds. The truth is, your future Adam or Eve may be someone you have known for some time, or have developed a recent friendship with. They may even be a childhood friend. However, you will know a comfort around them that you have rarely, if ever, experienced. Your true love will look you directly in the eyes as if they have known you forever. Sometimes, if you are open to the Spirit, you will also feel a deep connection that goes beyond boyfriend/girlfriend.
Just as there is an Antichrist, there are anti-mates
The second type of mate that will show up are those Satan wants to foist upon you to derail God’s plan in your life. These will be objects of desire, women or men who are confident in themselves to the point of arrogance. People whom your natural man will desire for their beauty, charisma, position or wealth. In fact, everything that God’s chosen mate does not seem to be, they will seem to possess in abundance.
Thus, you have a choice to make. Do you listen to God and choose His mate, or do you marry Satan’s selection? Unfortunately, more often than not, people choose unwisely. This one rash vow disrupts the plan of God in their lives and the lives of any progeny for years to come. Like Marty McFly’s photo in “Back to the Future”, God’s children begin to fade and the future He foreordained vanishes.
The mate that God gives you is eternal
Saints, God sees the heart of your future mate and will select the right one for you. The Divine Union that God picks is eternal, while the mate that Satan offers is temporal. By diverting your eyes from God’s choice, the Devil seeks to keep you from your destiny. God knows your chosen mate will be with you through thick and thin, while another will desert you during calamity. God knows your children will be blessed if born in the will of His Spirit.
The bottom line is, do not marry out of the will of God. Your choice of spouse is the most important decision you will make during this lifetime. Realize the gravity of picking the right mate and purpose in your heart to yield to the Spirit of God. You sow the seeds of divorce when you disregard your Father’s pick of your future mate. Therefore, yield to His still small voice and choose wisely.
Dear Connections,
Love a first sight is, in reality, love by Divine Connection. It is when God connects you to another as your eternal mate. When you meet your God given spouse it is literally the first day of the rest of your life…forever.
Blessings,
Michael
Dear Connections,
The reason that Divine Mates feel like their love is forever, is because in the beginning it was meant to be forever.
Those whom God has offered such unions and then rejected it, are like Esau, and though they cry tears of regret, there is little blessing left for them.
There is not always Bristol, nor is going back to your folly wisdom.
Sincerely,
Michael
Do believe I jumped into marriage with the anti-mate before I ever met God’s choice.
I am pretty certain that I have met God’s choice. There is too much coincidence and consistency and peace in our relationship for it to be anything but God. And yet…initially… it was more “love at first fight” than “love at first sight.” 🙂 The fight wasn’t aggressive or ongoing or vicious…just actually a fun little tiff/ banter that was blown way out of proportion by others that witnessed it but brought the two of us together somehow. I still don’t really know how… but God continued and continues to be in our relationship pushing us together. Even I think talking to me at times (once aloud and once through intrusive thoughts that did not originate in MY brain) to keep things at peace between us. I have to assume He talks to the divine male mate as well… just based on timing and reactions he has to things he cannot know…
Anyhow. That love at first fight thing… that could be what you’re talking about as well yes?
I am excited to see how God works with this. I have to believe He will, as He’s brought the man to me several times now. And seems to have rejected the other (at least for me).
I have wished many a time that instead of platitudes about inner beauty being more important than outer beauty (though true) and being the right person > finding the right person (true only to an extent) my mother had soothed my frustration that men didn’t want me by telling me that God had someone special for me and was keeping the pretenders away so I could be pure for the one He meant me to have. Sheesh that would have been so much better than encouraging me to settle for the first thing that came my way, which I did out of desperation thinking it MUST be God-ordained and my only chance ever because no one seemed to like me, not that way anyhow.
Wish I’d been told about my divine mate. God made him so exactly perfect for me it’s unbelievable. The divine mate confirms to me that God exists and is loving, because only a powerful, all-knowing, loving God could make someone that specifically perfect to ME and have him like me… (and I assume the same in reverse but hesitate to speak for him). And bring him to me and me to him in so many obviously orchestrated ways…
What a mess. 🙂 And yet also what joy.
Hope people start being led to wait for the right one. You really can only BE the right one for the right one… as I’ve learned from hard experience trying to be the right one for one who wouldn’t accept any offering.
Cheers. Thanks for this series. I’m glad I came upon it…but glad I came to it after already having reached these conclusions in prayer with God. It’s great to see someone else got here too…makes me feel less alone/ crazy.
Dear Anon,
I like what you wrote,
” The divine mate confirms to me that God exists and is loving, because only a powerful, all-knowing, loving God could make someone that specifically perfect to ME and have him like me”
I think this is a great insight that you articulated! A Divine Mate is the perfect gift for someone you love and exactly what Eve was to Adam and vice versa.
I am glad you are receiving some benefit out of what we share here. It is true that many times what we are is a “confirmation ministry” to help those who come into God’s revelation feel less alone in what they are being shown. I know this is what I would have desired when I was walking this path for the first time.
Keep sharing as you like. I believe that other who read what you and everyone else says takes great encouragement from it!
Big hugs and lots of love,
Michael