Here is a truth,
“God gives Divine Mates for His Divine Purpose so that His will may be done on Earth as it is in Heaven”
God has been pairing Divine Mates together since the beginning of time. While there are many benefits of being a Divine Mate, it is the purpose God has in mind for both of you that is really important. Each time God joins a man and woman together, our Father has a specific purpose and intent in mind for your union. To the extent that we fulfill His will, we bring heaven to earth.
Weddings, as commonly practiced, focus upon what the individuals want rather than what God desires. Often, nuptials become all about the bride, showing her off to those who attend. People commonly say “it is your day” to the woman when, in fact, it should be the Lord’s day. Your marriage is only holy matrimony if God is the center of it. Therefore, if it is all about you, how can it possibly be all about Him?
God’s love is all in all
Intimacy, in any divinely mated couple, is incredibly intense spiritually and physically. When you join as God desires, He blesses everything about your union; including sex. However, as good as love-making is, that is only a side benefit of following His Spirit and not His primary purpose. God, through you, desires to bring forth His children, which are ideally an amalgamation of both God and man. Moreover, God wants to also manifest His nature, touching the lives of those around you. Ministries that God accomplishes through Divine Mates have lasting effects in the lives of those they touch.
For example, Abraham and Sarah joined together as God desired. Esther and King Ahasuerus saved the nation of Israel. Ruth and Boaz fulfilled the will of God by being the grandparents of King David. Joseph, a righteous man, was the protector and later husband to the mother of Christ. Aquila and Priscilla were pillars in the early church. All these Divine Mates and many more participated in and influenced major events in God’s plan. God created their unions, specifically matching them together for their times and seasons to carry out His will.
God has a Divine Purpose in mind for you and your mate
Therefore, it makes a great deal of difference to God whether or not you join with a mate of His choosing. Our Father has specific things to accomplish through you and your mate, however, if you deny Him that opportunity, much of what He wants to do is left undone.
I am not saying that God will pair you with someone you aren’t attracted to or that does not have the qualities you desire. However, what I am saying is that God might call you to marry someone you feel is inappropriate or out-of-your league. If it is a potential divine mate, you will fall madly in love with them, but it will not make much sense to your natural reasoning. Most people miss their divine mates simply because their “knowledge of good” gets in the way of the leading of God.
People recognize this fact too, for there are always stories of childhood sweethearts, reuniting after a lifetime of being apart married to another. That same connection they felt when they were young is still as powerful when they meet years later as it was then. Unfortunately, by the time they get around to doing what they felt originally to do, their lives are practically over. The movie “The Notebook” dramatizes this point very nicely. If you want to know about the power of Divine Mates, I encourage you to watch it.
God is the best matchmaker
Finally, trust God in your choice of spouse exclusively. No one in heaven or earth is more qualified to pick your perfect mate than God is. God knows the hearts of all men and women and through foreknowledge gives you the very best.
Beloved,
If you over-qualify and try to explain all the different scenarios God might do, then we risk making a dogma out of a revelation. God does not want to explain everything to our natural minds. What He desires to do is give us the lay of the land, then individually lead us through it.
Thus, the teaching about Divine Mates does not cover every possible permutation simply because there are too many. When it comes to your specific situation, YHWH will lead you individually in a very relevant way which is suitable to your set of circumstances.
When natural minded men and women try to define what God will and will not do, they restrict God to what they know. This is foolish and unwise. Restricting the church to what the first century apostles wrote in their epistles was the worst attack on the sovereignty of God in the last 2000 years. Therefore do not let my writings or anyone else’s writings ever define God for you. There are not enough books in the world to contain what God can or will do, for He is infinite.
Moreover, this is why we must allow His Spirit to lead and guide us into all truth. Our natural minds cannot contain God, only our spirits can. Therefore, as you are introduced to your Divine Mate, know that our Lord will lead and guide you in a manner that is unique to you. Do not look for a method, submit to His leading. My writings are guidelines only, serving to point you in the right direction, however, only you can make the journey.
Sincerely,
Michael
Thanks for that last paragraph above (from July 26, 2018) – that is exactly confirmation of what God is speaking to me (see my response of Feb 11 under A Whole Lotta Translation regarding your comment to me about my Divine Mate) – “as you are introduced to your Divine Mate, know that Our Lord will lead and guide you in a manner that is unique to you.. Do not look for a method, submit to His leading. My writings are guidelines only, serving to point you in the right direction, however, only you can make the journey.”
Thank you for your examples, your openness, your boldness and encouragement!
Dear CL,
I am glad that confirmed what God spoke to you. Obviously, if it did not you would have to “go with God” no matter what anyone said. What is happening now, or what I am seeing, is there is approuching a move of the Spirit that simply cannot be explained by man’s reason. The only way you enter into what is coming is through God’s Spirit.
Like you do, people must listen the voice of God themselves. When this experience finally get’s here, even what I have written will appear like a small step into a vast experience of God.
Big hugs and God bless,
Michael
Hello Michael, this is Curtis. I have a question for you, what happens when what you thought was a divine mate relationship fails. One where you saw God in every detail of a relationship, so many moves of the spirit reveal something spiritual is going on and you knew for sure God was speaking into a relationship, only to have it fall apart. How can one ever know whether a relationship is truly of a divine mate nature when they fail like any other?
Curtis
In addition to what Michael said, I also would suggest you consider why it is you think it’s failed. (Michael please correct me if I’m in error here.)
I thought years ago that God was leading me to my Divine Mate…but it didn’t make sense because we were both married and I didn’t have this concept or terminology. Yet God seemed to be in it. I am sure we both felt it and both resisted it, thinking it was wrong. By all outward appearances it WAS.
He moved far away and didn’t reach out at ALL (nor did I to be fair) for years. I finally gave up/ gave him to God. First tried in anger, but God wouldn’t take him that way. He stayed on my mind. So when I got past the anger I gave him to God in love…and God accepted him. Took him off my mind, out of my heart (so I thought). I repented of that “failed” relationship and decided not to even reach out as a friend, as the Divine Mate’s presence would always interfere with my ability to appreciate my earthly spouse appropriately. About the time I gave the Divine Mate to God in prayer to care for, the Divine Mate started reaching back out to me. In my stubbornness and ignorance, I ghosted and rejected him for 3x the length of time he had been out of contact with me.
When I finally DID agree to see him again, it was because he tried yet again to reach out, after a decade…interestingly I had just recently been fully convinced that my earthly marriage was over in every way but the paperwork/ legalities. I honestly just wanted to get out of the toxic residence so I agreed to see him. And the rest was history as they say… we picked right up where we’d left off decades before.
God seems to be in the “forbidden” relationship, but not in the legal one. The legal one…we are an example of the Bride of Hell/ The Devil, not the Bride of Christ. The “forbidden” one, I just can’t put into words how he has cared for me like Christ, and how much I look up to him as his true bride. How he truly reflects God to me, and how I truly reflect him out to the world…so as the scriptures say, the man is the glory of God and the woman is the glory of the man. That is how we are together…so much so that when he is in my life, EVERYONE can see it, even if they don’t know what is causing it. But they comment, anyhow.
My long-winded point…it’s quite possible that it’s not failed, but put on hold for a bit…depending on your circumstances. It’s possible that God leads you back together. Why on hold? I don’t know. I don’t know that even about my own situation, given that Divine Mates are supposed to have a purpose and it seems like we’re past that in a sense…or getting close to past that anyhow. Yet, I trust that God knows what He is doing, even if it makes no sense to me…yet I also struggle with it (am I just a megalomaniac to think the way I do? Am I sinning and using God to justify it? I hope not…I don’t THINK I am as I’ve put this before God in prayer and keep getting the same answers…)
Anyhow wishing you the best. It’s not easy to follow where God leads when it’s against everything you’ve ever been taught. It’s hard sometimes to even see His leading…and to be certain you’re not just fooling yourself. He must continuously be amazed at how slow we can be to see His leading…
Dear Curtis and Anon,
I believe that when God speaks He means what He says. Thus, when Israel would not enter into the Promised Land the first time around, 40 years later, a new generation was given and chance to say yes. God caused them come to the same place that they faltered in unbelief and this time they were willing to obey. Likewise, often times when God has called us to do something important, and we delay or refuse, He will bring us to that same decision again and give us a second chance to cross over in faith. Our Father’s mercy and patience is a wonderful thing!
Be hugs and lots of love,
Michael
Hi Curtis,
Nice to see you Brother! Well, you know by the Spirit. Whether it falls apart or not, doesn’t change the fact that God put you together. Divine mates are two by two, and it takes two to Divine Mate!
Take for instance my first marriage to a spiritual connection. I was very sure that God put us together. In fact I gave up everything to follow God’s will with her. Unfortunately, she had a difficult past with drug abuse. As long as she stayed under my covering she was fine, but when she started abusing prescription meds (I did not know it at the time because I was never a drug user), everything started falling apart. Eventually, after 12 years of increasingly bad behavior, I just could not subject myself and the rest of the family to that type of behavior any longer.
So was God wrong? No, God definitely put us together. What happened then? One of more of the people within the relationship failed to live up to what the Holy Spirit was calling them to do. So, at long last, when God gave me permission by His Spirit, I divorced her. It was hard, terrible, disruptive and not God’s best will. However, she was becoming such a liability that she could not remain.
In reality, the goal in any marriage is not to remain together no matter what, the goal is to be available to do God’s will. If your marriage prevents God’s will from being done, why are you in it even if God put it together? God chose Saul through the prophet Samuel, but His chosen decided to consult the witch of Endor. Was Saul called? Yes. Was God wrong? No. Saul could have chosen to do right and obey God in all things.
I hope that helps a bit. God called more than one person to be king over backslidden Israel and promised to establish their throne. However, when each one of those kings failed to do God’s will, they lost the position He gave them. It the same with those God calls to be divine mates. Though the promise of God is given, how we react to it determines our fate.
Big hugs and God bless,
Michael
Thank you Michael. I understand. God bless you.